“Machel’s Ranch” February 2012 column “Pick More Daisies & Celebrate Your Birthday Always.”
“Machel’s Ranch”

Newspaper Columnist, Machel Penn Shull writes bi-weekly for The Rancho Santa Fe News in Rancho Santa Fe California, USA
By the time you read this I will be forty-one years old. Since my last column, Whitney Houston Died. Starting last year—right right before my birthday—I become incredibly nostalgic for a good friend that is no longer here. The pop star’s death reminded me of the person I missed. You know, how events can trigger past wounds to resurface…death is not easy. Life continues to go on, change, and fill the gaps left behind of those that leave us. Their impact on us will never be removed. The photos that were snapped will always remain the same. We can take those memories with us and keep them close to our heart. Choose to remember all of the joy they brought to us, even after they are gone. We must continue to celebrate their memory.
“Machel’s Ranch” The Rancho Santa Fe News-February column
How do you keep yourself inspired everyday? Do you ever get up and think, “This is it, same thing as yesterday. How long will life continue on with this same routine?” Yes, life can be boring, methodical and sometimes just plain “hum-drum.” What do we do when this happens? Do you decide to pity yourself? Feel like life is predictable and what is the point? I will admit, the reason I am writing this is because I encountered these feelings this week. Yes, I too, can find the eucalyptus trees and the design of the perfect landscape in California just a bit on the blah side. While winter is happening elsewhere in the world, we constantly blessed with pretty amazing weather. No reason to whine about that, right? Well, one must hibernate, recharge, regroup, reinvent themselves. Even though there are moments that can eclipse us that make us feel bored, we must remind ourselves of each and every blessing. I recently was looking through some of my photos of and thought, These pictures show a beautiful life.” I soon realized that although it’s tempting to indulge in idleness, we must stop ourselves from this pitfall. The challenge is to remain upbeat, youthful and hopeful with each new day. We may think we know what’s going to happen and that we’ve got it all figured out. However, life still remains a mystery…just like the nature of true love. With the “Month of Love” upon us, I am some fun events in and around the Ranch. Happy Valentine’s Day Rancho Santa Fe!Rancho Santa Fe News, “Machel’s Ranch” January 2012 ~ Adopt a Pet and Stay healthy this year
On New Year’s Eve, my beloved kitty died. What a devastating way to start the New Year of 2012. With much reflection and love for my cat that I have had for 8 years, I must tell you this moment hurt deeply, but also helped me realize the beauty in our every day gifts. My son, husband—plus my family was in town—grieved for the loss of our pet. We felt lucky to have her for as long as we did. This experience was once again a reminder to me how precious time and life is each day. This was unexpected.
What I can tell you as a farm girl from Missouri? My kitty Audrey had a tremendous life. I do know that I never took her for granted. I tried extra hard to always let her know how much she was loved by me. Having many kitties over the years, you can only guess that this is a familiar feeling (grieving when they die) that I have adjusted to with time. If you are a pet owner, than I am sure you know what it feels like to lose your beloved animal. With that being said, we have adopted a rescue kitty that has been saved from a “high kill” shelter. What I have learned from this traumatic week is there are so many animals out there that need a home. Please adopt an animal this year in 2012. If you can’t do that because you already have too many pets, please donate to an animal rescue shelter. Life is gift and so was my beautiful kitty, Audrey. Make time this year in 2012 to give love to an animal that will also fill your life with much joy and comfort. Happy New Year Rancho Santa Fe. I adopted my kitty from a wonderful woman named Lonnie that devotes much of her life to saving animals. Here is her contact information: Fur.ever@yahoo.com. Thanks Lonnie for being a ‘real live angel’ to animals in need.

Newspaper Columnist, Machel Penn Shull writes bi-weekly for The Rancho Santa Fe News in Rancho Santa Fe California, USA
On December 26th, I decided to capture the beauty of winter in Rancho Santa Fe. I pulled over (I do this often and it drives my son nuts!) by my son’s school to walk the trails near the Rancho Santa Fe golf course. The the naked blue sky filled the air with perfection, as the autumn colors of reds and yellows shined in the bright sunlight. The walking trail had peaks of light beaming across the leaves, as I strolled next to the golf course photographing the trees. Here is one photo from that day. The trees look beautiful in the Ranch right now. This is also an excellent way to stay in shape; take a two mile walk three times a week. Don’t forget to make time for yourself in the New Year. I do! 
Real Estate Agent Priscilla Wood with cuddly friend. One of Rancho Santa Fe's premier Real Estate agents.
On December 30th, My sister’s family stopped in to Legends Gallery in La Jolla to see me. If you haven’t heard, I work part-time as a fine art consultant in La Jolla. Do you need art? We sell Rockwell, Chagall, Miro, Dr. Seuss, Mackenzie Thorpe and De La Nuez to mame just a few of the artists we carry. Here is a wonderful photograph from that day.
Happy New Year in 2012, “Dare to be the Nice Guy in 2012″
What do I want to tell you on New Year’s Day in 2012? Life is a gift. Don’t waste it. Life is precious. Don’t be a whiner. Life is amazing. Don’t be predictable. Life is a gift from above, and yes, life hurts sometimes, too. Sometimes we lose those we love, a pet might die, or we move away from friends and family members that we normally see each day.
How to cope? Believe in the goodness this world has to offer. Believe in daily miracles that remind us to be present so we don’t miss them when they happen. Believe in your loved ones. Don’t nag them. Don’t be overly critical. Life is tough enough without someone that we love judging us all the time.
Have faith! Have fun, and find bliss. Force yourself out of your thoughts, so you can recognize the beauty, even in the ordinary things. Don’t be a baby! Don’t feel sorry for yourself. Remember, that just when you think life has hit an all time low, you can still spiral downwards. This may not sound optimistic this last line, but it is indeed true. Why think like that? So you can be aware of how lucky you are each day. Life is wonderful!
Life is gift. I am not going to give you one of those reality checks with out terrible the world we are living in because I don’t believe that one bit. Life is not fair. Yes, it can be cruel. But be brilliant, be bold, dare yourself to march ahead and grab the next bar up on the ladder. Dare to believe in your dreams of impossibility…
There is a house I often see. Each time I drive by, I think, “I’m going to live there one day!” Well, the house is a pretty expensive property. In order for this to happen, some other amazing things might have to happen, too. I may never live there. But what fun is it to dream as a drive by it. Why not think big like Norman Vincent Peale always suggested?
Like good ol’ Clint Eastwood’s character in “Bridges of Madison County” said to Meryl Streep’s character in the kitchen–
“The old dreams were good dreams, too. They might not have all come true, but at least I had them.” (This isn’t verbatim.)
What’s my point. 2012 is our year. Your year. Your thoughts. Your life. Reach out into the unknown and discover the person you’ve always dreamed of becoming. Dare to soar into new heights. Dare to dream impossibilities.
Be kind and loving. Be nice always. You know that saying “Nice guys finished last?” Well, guess what? That’s right. Would you like to know why that doesn’t matter, you know about coming in last bit?” Because the nice guy doesn’t care. The nice person has a heart and is here to make your day better, too and are not just out for themselves.
DARE TO BE NICE in 2012. You might just win a few new friends and find nuggets of goodness hanging from the sky because of your own personality change. Dare to be yourself, and dare to believe in every day miracles.
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William Ray Penn &William Ray Penn Jr. William Ray Penn Sr. is a proud Marine that fought in the most decorated Marine Battalion ever in the history of the marines, due to one significant battle at Christmas time in 1966 in Vietnam.
man or man in uniform fighting for us to make sure we are able to celebrate freely. Meanwhile, someone has died for us to have this right. Families have grieved over the loss of their loved ones. It is important to remember these facts this season. We must remember those that have sacrificed their souls to make sure that we are still free. I wish for each brave American soldier much love and blessings. Without you, America would be lost. Without your devotion, pride and dedication, how might our country survive? Please, let us unite, stand proud as Americans and remember those who serve and the veterans of the United States this holiday season.
On the other side of the Ranch, Violet MacDonald was opening her home to her family, which included one of her favorite granddaughter’s Reese MacDonald. Violet is an active member in the Garden Club here in town and has been featured on several occasion in San Diego Home and Garden Magazine for her own immaculate garden that surrounds her property in Rancho Santa Fe. I have also include a picture-perfect-photo of Holden and Meredith MacDonald, whom are also part of this clan here in the Ranch. Violet is very proud of her family! Thanks for sharing the holiday photos.
smiling from within…Could it be that the Ozark Mountains (where I am from in Missouri) exists out here in California? Well, who knew God’s country was just right around the corner? You would think that someone would alert the media to these things. It seems, I guess, one must discover ‘heaven on earth’ a little later in life. You could say that I’m definitely like Ava Gabor’s character in Green Acres:“Darling I love you, but give me Park Avenue.” I love both. But, trust me, take a drive out past Lake Wohlford one weekend and enter into a valley full of citrus, wild peacocks and avocados. You won’t regret it. Here is a photo I captured of a peacock casually hanging out on the rooftop that weekend.
always thrilled to go their holiday party and this year was no exception. Unfortunately, my family came down with the flu that weekend, so I was only able to stop in briefly to snap a few photos for this week’s issue. Woe to the life of a working girl. (I’m semi-kidding.) Well, what can I tell you? The party was decked out with private waiters, a local musician playing, fine food and champagne flowing over the flute glasses. The guests—that I saw that arrived early—looked smashing in their glittery holiday attire. Oh the joys of the holiday spirit, holiday wonder and how wonderful to have a friend like Karian and Tom. Thanks, for always including me. I love you guys.“Machel’s Ranch,” The Rancho Santa Fe News “Daylight Savings Time”
that take place during springtime. Now that spring has officially arrived, make
sure you don’t miss out on some of life’s more sublime pleasures like taking a
hike one of San Diego’s many trails. One right under your nose here in the Ranch
is San Dieguito Trail. There is an entrance just right across from Cielo that
you can access easily off Del Dios Highway.
Just because we live close to the beach, don’t forget to take advantage of the Ranch’s rugged natural
landscape that can offer a quick reprieve to your busy week. Here is a link in
case you would like more information on out local trails in the area:
sdrp.org/trails.htm. Just make sure you wear the appropriate shoes for your
hike. My advice would be to go with a friend. There’s always safety in numbers.
I have included a candid photo from some local residents right before they
ventured out on San Dieguito’s trail. Now let’s find out some other exciting
stories that have been taking place in Machel’s Ranch.
Around
Town
At the end of February, one of my dearest friends, Meredith
MacDonald, celebrated her birthday at the plush Ritz restaurant in Newport
Beach. If you haven’t been to the Ritz, it’s feels like something out of New
York with the big round leather seats under romantic lighting as music fills the
restaurant. Here is a gorgeous photo of Meredith with her mother, CC Whitney,
from their special mother/daughter birthday outing. Thanks for sharing the photo
from that special weekend.
On March 12, I headed entered the exclusive
neighborhood of The Crosby. I just love it when I pull up to the gates, and say
to the attendant, “Karian Forsyth, I’m here for the spa party.” As the sentence
rolls off my lips, I feel like I’m watching one of those reality shows with all
of the gorgeous women decked out in their pearls and gems as they sip fruity
cocktails, while the cameras roll.
This is how Karian’s parties feel:
opulent, elegant and fabulous. I usually spend a good hour getting ready to for
these Saturday once a month events, which ends up with me trying to wrangle some
outfit together that leaves me feeling less than perfect. But then again, that’s
why I’m having a treatment done, right? I have included one photo from that day
that captures the relaxed day of luxuriating all of guests enjoyed as they
waited poolside for their rejuvenating treatment. Thanks, Karian! I wouldn’t be
surprised our local resident ends up on her own reality show. Stay
tuned.
On March 13, I was down at Lemon Twist with my husband Robin Shull
when his parents and good friends all arrived to enjoy a Sunday hike on the San
Dieguito Trail. One of the local residents is none other than Trudi Crockett,
one of San Diego’s local artists. For the last 18 years Trudi has had the divine
pleasure of painting as her first profession and supplying fancy resorts all
over Southern California with beautiful impressionist art of their hotels. Visit
Trudi’s website at resortimpressions.com if you would like to purchase art from
well known local artist. I have included the photo that day of all the hikers
that enjoyed the wonderful weather that Sunday.
On March 15, I received
some exciting news that Sheila Malek, owner of Ellie’s Formal Wear in Encinitas,
has launched her own fashion page blog on Facebook. Sheila shares some quick
tips and how to get that great fashion look for any occasion. Visit
facebook.com/#!/pages/Ellies-fashion-talk/200054936673699. Check it out. Sheila
gives advice on how to use your current wardrobe and lists the latest fashion
trends at this link. If you are looking for some direct tips, she has a style
team waiting for you at Ellie’s Tailor Shop. Her direct number is (760)
944-0539. Here is a lovely photo of Sheila with her daughter that was recently
taken over the holidays. Check out her link to find out how you can look like a
supermodel, too. Thanks for keeping me informed Sheila!
On March 17, I
connected with one of my favorite women in Rancho Santa Fe,
Elaine Gallagher. She had recently celebrated with friends in Del Mar at Club M at the
Bently Charity.
I have included a fun shot from the event, plus another photo
that captures the beginning of her journey as a health coach. Last year, Elaine
lost 30 pounds on the Medifast diet, which has to her link on
yestosuccess.tsfl.com. If you would like to take steps on how to improve your
diet and need direction, Elaine is someone locally that can help you to find
your path to losing weight, feeling and looking great, too.
Save the date
On April 8, Men Against Breast Cancer will be honoring local residents
Phil and Amy Mickelson. For more information on this event, check out
menagainstbreastcancer.eventbrite.com. Marc Heyison is the found of Men against
Breast Cancer, which is the first and only nonprofit organization designed to
educate men on how to be effective caregivers if breast cancer strikes their
family.
Marc also helped co-author a book in 2008, “Frankly Speaking
When Someone You Care About Has Breast Cancer.” If you someone you love has
breast cancer and you need guidance, you can contact Marc directly at Marc
@menaganstbreastcancer. org.
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